Who Needs God?
April 5, 2019
Inviting someone to church should be simple, but for some reason, it is anything but. Check out these simple ways to get the conversation going. These conversation starters are about real things. Don’t just say “hey my church is really cool, you should come sometime.” Go a little deeper and give people tangible reasons why this is something they really need.
What to say: “Hey, do you want to come to church with me this Easter?”
Remember the conversation you start is often more important than “closing the deal.” Asking someone to come to church is going to most likely trigger a spiritual discussion. That is awesome! I know you may not feel prepared, but you got this! If the person starts to talk about why they don’t go to church or maybe even why they think it’s dumb, just forget about the invite. For right now, just dig in deep. Listen and empathize with them. They may have a really good reason or maybe they have no idea what it’s all about. By all means extend the invitation to come to church, but the discussion that starts is pure gold.
What to say: I started going to church recently and I was completely surprised how helpful it has been. I was really nervous to go to church because I didn’t know what to expect, but Life Bridge is a super welcoming and every week there is really good content that has helped me understand so much about the Bible I never understood. I think you would really find it helpful and I would love for you to join me sometime.
Honestly, this is probably your best approach at some point. People like good music and a welcoming church, but before they experience that, they are going to need someone to tell them how helpful it is to a very real person.
We have all driven by that restaurant that looks kind of interesting to us. We’ve thought about trying it, but we put it off because we don’t want to risk throwing away money at a place we don’t know anything about. Then one day it happens. Someone tells us about their experience. “Oh it’s awesome, my wife had the Shrimp Quinoa and I had the ribeye and they were both amazing, Oh and dessert is free when you download their app.” Well, that is all you needed to hear. It’s just a matter of time and you will be eating a free dessert.
The world runs on personal recommendations. If someone is going to give church a try, it will only happen if they hear that it has changed your life. Put yourself out there I promise you will get their attention.
What to say: Hey, my kids (or grandkids, or sister, etc..) love going to Life Bridge. I think yours would really like it to. Every week they reinforce the same core values that I am teaching them. It’s really been a game changer for our family.
Honestly, if we never had kids I am not sure if most people would get their life together. Parents are looking for every possible way to guide their kids towards what matters most. Our children’s ministry has always been our strongest connection with people who aren’t going to church. When they see how much we care and how much their kids enjoy it, church sounds incredibly appealing to young families.
What to say: Hey would you like to come to church with me Sunday? I know going to a new church or maybe church for the first time can be intimidating, but Life Bridge is really a great place for a visitor. Our whole purpose is to “be a church for people who don’t go to church.” So no one is going to point you out or make you feel awkward in any way. If you want to go I will meet you in the lobby and we can sit together.
This is important. Many people have an almost irrational fear of attending church. They are sure it’s going to be awkward or that somebody is going to do or say something weird. This is probably the thing that keeps most people from attending. Calming their fears is vital.
Also, being alone when they walk in is a real fear. Offer to pick them up or meet in the lobby. Shoot them a text well in advance and let them know you are going to be in the parking lot. This is critically important if the person you are inviting has ever acknowledged that they have anxiety about social situations.
So there you go, four ways to invite people to church. At the bare minimum, you will start a discussion. You may find yourself in a pretty big God-inspired moment. Just be willing!
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